If you try to throw my interracial marriage in my face, no matter how "subtle" you THINK you're being I'm going to 1) think you are a moron and 2) pretty much let you fall by the wayside forever afterward, especially if you do it to imply that I'm not "Black enough" for marrying a White man ( Read more... )

Never, EVER even ATTEMPT to discuss YOUR decision to go naptural with a permie. They will inevitably accuse you of trying to harangue them into going natural too. They will accuse you of accusing them of wanting to be White even if you've not even MENTIONED that. They will accuse you of persecuting them for their "choice," no matter how ( Read more... )

A lot of folks' love/sex problems could be alleviated if not solved if they'd just figure out what they REALLY want and own up to it instead of frontin' and trying to be something they're not.

( Read more cuz this is long-ass long. )